March 2012 Agreed Divorce Instructions Page 5 of 5
appeal. During this 30-day period, don’t get
married again or buy any property.
What is a Divorce Agreement?
The Divorce Agreement is one of the papers you
must file to get an agreed divorce. It tells the
court what you and your spouse agreed about
property and debts.
Doesn’t the court divide our property?
No. In an agreed divorce, the spouses decide
these things together. But the court wants to see
that you divide your property and debts fairly.
You have to list how
all
the property is divided,
even if you think the property belongs only to one
of you. It doesn’t have to be equal. The court
may change things if the agreement is not fair or
one spouse will not have enough to live on.
Do you and your spouse agree about how to
divide the property fairly? Then most of the time
the court will OK your agreement.
Important! The court may not OK your
agreement if it is unfair.
Important! Creditors can try to collect from either
spouse. It does not matter if the other spouse
signed for the debt. It does not matter if the other
spouse agreed to pay for a debt. If either spouse
is thinking of filing bankruptcy, talk to a lawyer. It
may cause problems for the other spouse. If you
have a mortgage together, you cannot use these
forms.
What if my spouse and I can’t agree on
everything in the Divorce Agreement?
A mediator is someone who helps people agree.
The mediator meets with you and your spouse to
try to help you and your spouse find an
agreement that is ok for both of you.
Note: Are you a victim of domestic violence?
Then you don’t have to meet the mediator with
your spouse. You and your spouse can have
separate meetings.
What if the mediator can’t help us agree?
Then you can’t use this packet. Talk to a lawyer
about filing a regular divorce.
What if my spouse will not sign the Divorce
Agreement?
Then you can’t get an agreed divorce. Don’t use
this packet.
Will the court decide on alimony?
No. In an agreed divorce, the spouses decide on
alimony. Alimony is money that one spouse pays
the other for support. You must say how much it
will be and how long it will be paid. This goes in
your Divorce Agreement.
For example, some spouses decide that alimony
will be paid until:
• The paying spouse remarries or files for
bankruptcy, or
• The supported spouse remarries, or
• The supported spouse finishes school, or
• One of the spouses dies.
Alimony may make a difference in your taxes.
Talk to a tax expert before you sign the Divorce
Agreement.
What if we can’t agree on alimony?
Then you can’t get an agreed divorce. Don’t use
this packet. Is alimony important? Or is there a
big difference in salaries? Then talk to a lawyer.
You and your spouse may:
• Talk to a mediator, who may be able to help
you agree, or
• Talk to a lawyer, or
• File a regular divorce.
How do we divide retirement funds?
Sometimes the funds stay with the spouse who
earned them. Sometimes they are divided. Do
you or your spouse have retirement funds? Then
you need to talk to a lawyer and cannot use these
forms.
Should I talk to a lawyer about the Divorce
Agreement?
Yes! Talk to a lawyer about your property, debt,
retirement funds, and alimony. Some lawyers will
help with just the Divorce Agreement. You do the
rest of the case on your own.