What if I’m not sure that I have a legitimate reason?
If you are not sure that the reason you have exempts you from attending Mass on a particular
Sunday, or if you have a reason but one which isn’t serious enough to excuse yourself, check
with your pastor. He can
dispense or commute you
r obligation to attend
Mass for a particular
Sunday or Holy Day, though whether he does so is up to him. A commutation is when instead of
releasing someone of the obligation completely, they are asked to do something else as an
alternative, such as prayerfully meditate on the readings of the day.
Even when travelling, if a Mass is available, you should go. However, if it is impossible or
gravely inconvenient to go to Mass where you are, then there is no obligation. But it is a
praiseworthy practice to plan for Sunday Mass alongside planning travel or a vacation.
If it is impossible for you to come to Mass, or you are ill, you do not need to ask for a
dispensation; you can make that decision yourself in conscience.
How much of Mass can I miss and still fulfill my obligation?
If you grew up before 19
83, you may have hear
d a definite answer to t
his question- you had to
be present for the three elements of the Sacrifice- the Offertory, the Canon (Eucharistic Prayer),
and the Priest’s Communion. However, with our renewed emphasis on the Mass, including the
Liturgy of the Word, as a unified whole, there is no clear answer to the question in the current
Code of Canon Law. Instead, our focus should be, if I am late for Mass, why was I late? If you
are late because of unforeseen traffic, or because of a family emergency, this is not your fault,
and you are fine getting to Mass when you are able; you don’t need to turn around and go to a
different Mass at a different time just because you are late. If, on the other hand, you are late
because you were waiting to find out the score of the big game before you went in, then you did
not fulfill your duty for the part of Mass that you missed.
Why do we have a Sunday Obligation?
If you think about what the Mass is, and what Holy Communion is, it is hard to imagine why
anyone who truly believes in what is happening would even want to miss Mass. Why would we
willingly deprive ourselves of this grace? This is why it is important for all of us to understand
the purpose of the Mass and Jesus’s gift of himself in Holy Communion. We all need to be
continuously evangelized!
However, the Church, knows not only the importance of the Mass in the Christian life, but also
the weakness of our human nature. There are similar areas throughout human life. We do not
always have happy feelings for doing the right thing, and if we will not do something out of
love sometimes, perhaps we can be encouraged to do so out of a sense of duty. If everything is
in the right place, we do not need the Sunday obligation, because we would be there anyway if
we could. But when maybe not everything is right, we need a nudge to do the thing which will
help get everything right.