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Volume 36, Winter 2023, Issue 3 Article 8
The Law of Equitable Distribution: When Is Domestic Violence The Law of Equitable Distribution: When Is Domestic Violence
More Than Just a Factor in Divorce? More Than Just a Factor in Divorce?
Ada Tonkonogy
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THE LAW OF EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION:
WHEN IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MORE
THAN JUST A FACTOR IN DIVORCE?
ADA TONKONOGY
*
INTRODUCTION
Imagine you are married. After many years there are problems
in your marriage. Some of these issues are beyond your control.
You find out that your spouse is cheating on you. You plan to come
home from work and confront your spouse about their infidelities.
You even begin to think about the divorce process, confronting the
concerns raised in your mind. I’ll be okay. I have a great career, I
have worked my entire life, and I have saved. I will be okay.
That night you approach your spouse. After an argument breaks
out, you tell your spouse that you are leaving them. But they get
angry. They get so enraged that they attack you in the basement
of your marital home. “You’re never going to go anywhere [,]” they
say, strangling you.
1
“Now you are going to die.”
2
In 2011, Laura Panek’s husband attacked her, tied a rope
around her neck, and attempted to strangle her.
3
Miraculously,
she survived the near-death ordeal.
4
Laura’s husband pled guilty
to first-degree strangulation and was sentenced to eleven years in
*
J.D., St. John’s University School of Law, 2022.
1
No Way Out: Months-long Investigation Reveals Abusers Profiting Off Victims, NEWS
12 (Mar. 14, 2019, 7:30 PM), https://bronx.news12.com/no-way-out-monthslong-investigat
ion-reveals-abusers-profiting-off-victims-40130180 [https://perma.cc/MPM4-UNFV].
2
Id.
3
See id.
4
See id. Laura was reportedly thirty seconds from death. See id.
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prison.
5
Soon after, she filed for divorce.
6
Laura’s attempt for
justice was met by months of litigation, during which she was
forced to relive her harrowing ordeal in civil court.
7
And in the
end, justice was not served. Concerning the parties’ marital
assets, the judge awarded Laura’s abuser-spouse a significant
portion of her pension fund.
8
Therefore, after retiring in 2019,
Laura was forced to make monthly pension distributions to her ex-
husband while he continued serving his prison sentence for
attempting to kill her.
9
Domestic violence comes in many shapes and sizes, devastating
all types of communities regardless of age, sex, or economic
status.
10
It includes “willful intimidation, physical assault,
battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior as part of a
systematic pattern of power and control” by an intimate partner,
such as a spouse.
11
Unfortunately, Laura’s story is not unique—
20% of marriages involve domestic violence.
12
In the United
States, 25% of women and 10% of men will experience domestic
violence by their intimate partner in their lifetime.
13
In addition
to the physical and emotional impact, victims also face financial
5
See William Demarest, Pearl River Man Gets 11 Years In Prison for Attack On His
Wife, PATCH, https://patch.com/new-york/pearlriver/pearl-river-man-gets-11-years-in-
prison-for-attack-on-his-wife [https://perma.cc/9C9S-MWJK] (last updated Jan. 13, 2012,
6:16 PM).
6
See No Way Out: Months-long Investigation Reveals Abusers Profiting Off Victims,
supra note 1.
7
See id. (“[T]he divorce case dragged on for many months and ultimately ended with a
judge ordering Panek to pay a portion of her pension to the man who nearly killed her.”).
8
See id.
9
See id. Pension benefits earned by each spouse during a marriage are marital assets
and a party’s loss to the right of these funds is considered by divorce courts. See N.Y. DOM.
REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d)(4) (McKinney 2021). Courts may order pension funds to be
distributed to the opposing party once the retiree begins to receive them. See The Ex-
spouse’s Share, OFF. N.Y. STATE COMPTROLLER, https://www.osc.state.ny.us/retirement
/members/divorce/ex-spouses-share [https://perma.cc/BF6X-DS44] (last visited Mar. 11,
2021). The equitable distribution of marital assets will be further discussed throughout this
Note. See infra Part I.
10
See Domestic Violence, NATL COAL. AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE,
https://assets.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence-2020080709350855.pdf?15968
11079991 [https://perma.cc/MXD3-5FMT] (last visited Mar. 10, 2021).
11
Id.
12
Domestic Violence, AM. ASSN FOR MARRIAGE & FAM. THERAPY,
https://www.aamft.org/Consumer_Updates/Domestic_Violence.aspx
[https://perma.cc/F9CG-DU42] (last visited Mar. 9, 2021).
13
Id.
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devastation.
14
Medical costs directly related to intimate partner
violence are estimated at more than $4 billion per year, and
additional economic hardships are attributable to the loss of work
survivors face.
15
Laura’s story reached former New York State Senator David
Carlucci, who proposed a bill to amend the Domestic Relations
Law of New York.
16
Carlucci wanted “[t]o ensure that domestic
violence victims are protected from having to pay their abusers,
[by] adding certain restrictions on the equitable division of
assets.”
17
The bill called for an end to the abuse suffered by
victims in divorce court by prohibiting spouses convicted of
domestic violence from receiving awards in the form of marital
asset distributions.
18
The bill recommended adding an additional
factor to section 236(B)(5)(d) of the Domestic Relations Law
(hereinafter “DRL 236”),
19
which would “establish that parties
convicted of domestic violence [offenses] . . . are not extended the
right to equitable distribution of assets with the parties that they
have been convicted of domestic violence [ ] against.”
20
Mandating
that domestic violence be made a formal consideration would
14
See NATL CTR. FOR INJ. PREVENTION & CONTROL, Costs of Intimate Partner Violence
Against Women in the United States 2 (2003),
https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/ipvbook-a.pdf [https://perma.cc/85LB-SGBG].
15
See id.
16
See No Way Out: Months-long Investigation Reveals Abusers Profiting Off Victims,
supra note 1; S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019). Until this point, the state of New York
had never formally protected victims of domestic violence concerning the distribution of
marital assets. See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019). In other words, under New York
divorce law, marital assets were distributed to violent and oftentimes criminally convicted
abuser-spouses, solely because such property had been accumulated during the marriage.
See id. New York’s Legislature amended its Domestic Relations Law to include domestic
violence as a factor in the equitable distribution of marital assets after the dissolution of a
marriage. See 2020 Sess. Law News of N.Y. Ch. 55 (S. 7505-B) (McKinney 2020).
17
S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019).
18
See id. The bill proposed that matrimonial courts be prohibited from awarding
spousal maintenance and marital assets to parties convicted of abusing their spouses. See
id. However, the focus of this Note is solely on the distribution of marital assets under DRL
§ 236(B)(5)(d). See N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d) (McKinney 2021). The equitable
distribution law will be discussed throughout this Note.
19
See DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d). The provisions under DRL § 236(B) include various
issues regarding new matrimonial actions or proceedings, such as maintenance awards and
child support, but this is outside the scope of this Note. See generally DOM. REL. § 236(B).
This Note focuses on the equitable distribution of marital property under DRL
§ 236(B)(5)(d).
20
SB. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019). The proposal further defined domestic violence
as “several offenses and attempts to commit offenses under New York State statute, like
assault, menacing, strangulation, unlawful imprisonment, coercion, criminal tampering,
criminal contempt, aggravated harassment, criminal trespass, and arson.” Id.
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“ensure that the impact that abuse has on a relationship and the
awards of divorce proceedings are not subject to unreliable and
inconsistent interpretations by the divorce courts.”
21
In its proposal to amend the Domestic Relations Law, the New
York Senate drew inspiration from legislation enacted in
California, which advocates for domestic violence victims in
divorce proceedings.
22
Section 4325 of the California Family Code
(hereinafter “California Code”) creates a rebuttable presumption
that a criminally convicted abuser cannot receive spousal
maintenance from their victim-spouse.
23
By acknowledging the
very serious realities of abuse, the California Code shields victims
from becoming a payor of spousal maintenance.
24
However, the
California Code is also limited in its application: it pertains solely
to spousal support and only considers convictions that occurred
within five years of the divorce action.
25
Nevertheless, California’s
use of the penal code to protect victims from cutting future checks
to their abusers opened a similar door for marital property
distribution in New York.
26
In April 2020, the New York Legislature accepted the Senate’s
proposal and amended the Domestic Relations Law to add a new
factor: section 236(B)(5)(d)(14) (hereinafter “Factor 14”).
27
This
factor addresses domestic violence when resolving equitable
distribution during divorce proceedings.
28
Factor 14 reads: “[i]n
determining an equitable disposition of property . . . the court
shall consider whether either party has committed an act or acts
of domestic violence . . . against the other party and the nature,
21
Id.
22
See id. (“This legislation will . . . allow for the healing of domestic violence victims.
Similar legislation has been enacted in California.”); CAL. FAM. CODE § 4325(a)(1) (West
2020).
23
See FAM. § 4325(a)(1). California Family Code § 4325 creates a rebuttable
presumption that prohibits “an award of spousal support to the convicted spouse from the
injured spouse.” FAM. § 4325(a)(1). “The rebuttable presumption . . . may be rebutted by a
preponderance of the evidence.” FAM. § 4325(c). The issue of spousal maintenance awards
is beyond the scope of this Note.
24
See FAM. § 4325(a)(1).
25
See FAM. § 4325(a)(1).
26
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019) (relying on legislation enacted in California
regarding spousal support to abusive spouses).
27
See N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d)(14) (McKinney 2021); Adam Turbowitz, NY
Adds a New Factor to Consider For Equitable Distribution: Domestic Violence, 264 N.Y. L.
J. 9 (July 27, 2020).
28
See DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(14).
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extent, duration and impact of such act or acts.”
29
DRL 236 now
lists sixteen factors that divorce courts must use to balance the
distribution of marital property.
30
Leaving the weight and
consideration of each factor to the court’s discretion, the equitable
distribution law states:
In determining an equitable disposition of [marital]
property [between the parties], the court shall
consider: (1) the income and property of each party
. . . ; (2) the duration of the marriage and the age
and health of both parties; (3) the need of a custodial
parent to occupy or own the marital residence . . . ;
(4) the loss of inheritance and pension rights upon
dissolution of the marriage . . . ; (5) the loss of health
insurance benefits upon dissolution of the marriage;
(6) any award of maintenance . . . ; (7) any equitable
claim to, interest in, or direct or indirect
contribution made to the acquisition of such marital
property by the party not having title, including
joint efforts or expenditures and contributions and
services as a spouse, parent, wage earner and
homemaker, and to the career or career potential of
the other party . . . . ; (8) [T]he liquid or non-liquid
character of all marital property; (9) the probable
future financial circumstances of each party; (10)
the impossibility or difficulty of evaluating any
component asset or any interest . . . ; (11) the tax
consequences to each party; (12) the wasteful
dissipation of assets by either spouse; (13) any
transfer or encumbrance made in contemplation of
a matrimonial action without fair consideration;
29
DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(14). Factor 14 refers to the Social Services Law to describe
acts of domestic violence: “[A]n act which would constitute a violation of the penal law,
including, but not limited to acts constituting disorderly conduct, harassment, aggravated
harassment, sexual misconduct, forcible touching, sexual abuse, stalking, criminal
mischief, menacing, reckless endangerment, kidnapping, assault, attempted assault,
attempted murder, criminal obstruction of breathing or blood circulation, strangulation,
identity theft, grand larceny or coercion . . . [and other] acts [that] have resulted in actual
physical or emotional injury or have created a substantial risk of physical or emotional
harm . . . .” N.Y. SOC. SERV. LAW § 459-a (McKinney 2019) (emphasis added). The Social
Services Law provides examples of acts of domestic violence rather than a concrete
definition, and it is not within the focus of this Note.
30
See DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(1)–(16).
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(14) whether either party has committed an act or
acts of domestic violence . . . against the other party
and the nature, extent, duration and impact of such
act or acts; (15) in awarding the possession of a
companion animal, the court shall consider the best
interest of such animal . . . . ; [A]nd (16) any other
factor which the court shall expressly find to be just
and proper.
31
Adding domestic violence to the list of factors now instructs
courts to consider the impact of abuse on victim-spouses. Unlike
spousal maintenance, which can later be modified, equitable
distribution is determined for the judgment of divorce.
32
It is
therefore key to “ensure that judges consider the immeasurable
burden placed on survivors when determining equitable
distribution of property.
33
“Domestic violence has very damaging
effects on survivors, and they deserve to have those costs weighed
during a divorce.”
34
This Note discusses domestic violence within the scope of
matrimonial law, pointing out the several hardships and obstacles
that victim-spouses face in divorce proceedings. Importantly, it
highlights the systematic issues that are present in our judicial
system. Through a comprehensive case law analysis, this Note
examines the history of uncertainties surrounding the egregious
and shocking standard, a threshold of spousal misconduct that has
been routinely disagreed on by New York courts.
35
This Note also discusses the addition of domestic violence under
Factor 14 and the legislative policy and intended protection behind
the codification. It examines how the amendment to DRL 236
31
DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(1)–(16) (emphasis added).
32
See Family Court: Final Judgment of Divorce, FINDLAW, https://www.findlaw.com
/family/divorce/family-court-and-final-judgment.html (last updated Oct. 15, 2018). Once
the judge decides on all the issues of the parties, including the division of the parties’
marital property, the judge will grant the judgment of divorce. See id. Spousal support may
be changed following a final judgment of divorce. See id.; see also Modification of Final
Judgments, JUSTIA, https://www.justia.com/family/divorce/the-divorce-
process/modification-of-final-judgments/ [https://perma.cc/V8JN-NK8H] (last visited Sept.
2021) (noting that spousal support may be changed following a final judgement of divorce).
33
Press Release, Assembly Speaker Carl E. Heastie, Assembly Passes Legislation to
Bring Justice to Domestic Violence Survivors During Divorce (Mar. 11, 2020),
https://assembly.ny.gov/Press/files/20200311.php [https://perma.cc/6JT2-H58W].
34
Id.
35
See generally Turbowitz, supra note 27.
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continues to foster the same concerns over the egregious and
shocking standard. If left without further statutory direction, the
objective of including domestic violence under Factor 14 will be
lost as a result of the discretion permitted in awarding equitable
distribution. The risks surrounding judicial discretion under DRL
236 are especially apparent when courts must determine whether
the severity of abuse was “egregious enough” to support the
distribution of marital property in the victim’s favor. What pivots
the distribution of marital property in favor of the victim-spouse?
Must the abuser be criminally convicted of a heinous crime, or is a
credible history of spousal violence enough?
Therefore, as an alternative to Factor 14, this Note suggests that
legislators establish mandatory equitable distribution guidelines
to restrict judicial discretion and better protect victim-spouses.
This proposed legislation would create a pre-determined
mandatory minimum for victim-spouses, guaranteeing that their
equitable distribution award is no less than a set percentage of the
parties’ marital assets. In turn, this would automatically cap the
abuser-spouse’s interest in the marital assets. Like the California
Code, this legislation would better protect victim-spouses by
taking a punitive stance against abuser-spouses.
Further, this Note proposes that the mandatory
minimum/maximum guidelines be determined by a two-pronged
test. If a spouse in a divorce proceeding is or has been criminally
convicted for a domestic violence misdemeanor or felony under
New York’s Penal Law,
36
then that conviction would trigger the
mandatory equitable distribution guidelines under the first prong.
Here, the mandatory distribution guidelines will reflect the
abuser’s conviction under the Penal Law, taking into account the
ranges of felony and misdemeanor classifications. Upon
conviction, the victim-spouse would automatically receive a
mandatory minimum distribution of marital property in line with
the offense committed subject to the Penal Law. A conviction for
domestic violence of the lowest felony offense under the Penal Law
would trigger a mandatory minimum equitable distribution award
of 75% of the parties’ marital assets to the victim-spouse.
Likewise, a conviction for domestic violence of the lowest
36
See N.Y. PENAL LAW § 70.00 (McKinney 2019).
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misdemeanor offense under the Penal Law would trigger a
mandatory minimum distribution of 60% of the parties’ assets to
the victim. The remaining division of the marital assets will be
left to the judge’s discretion. As the classification of the offense
committed by the abuser increases, so would the mandatory
percentage of marital assets awarded to the victim-spouse.
37
Additionally, if during a divorce proceeding a spouse makes
allegations of domestic violence for which there is no criminal
conviction, then this Note proposes that courts assess abuse claims
under the second prong. Here, the victim-spouse will have to offer
evidence of violent conduct that resulted in serious bodily injury
or evidence of a history of marital domestic violence.
38
If a court
finds that the victim-spouse has sufficiently proved their
allegations, then this second prong will trigger a rebuttable
presumption that invokes a mandatory minimum equitable
distribution award of 75% of the parties’ marital assets to the
victim-spouse. Judicial discretion may be used to determine the
remaining distribution of property using DRL 236 factors. Like
the California Code, the alleged perpetrator may rebut the
presumption by a preponderance of the evidence.
39
If the alleged
abuser-spouse can do so, then the mandatory guidelines would no
longer be invoked. The court would be left with full discretion to
balance the remaining factors under DRL 236 to equitably
distribute the marital property. Similarly, if the court finds that
the alleged victim-spouse did not provide credible evidence of
domestic violence to trigger the second prong, then the court
remains with full discretion under DRL 236. This Note suggests
that legislative enactment of mandatory minimum/maximum
guidelines would restrict judicial discretion in matrimonial cases
that deal with domestic violence. This would bring legislators
closer to ensuring that courts are consistent when interpreting the
impact of domestic violence on parties and reliably determining
equitable distribution awards.
37
The greater the classification of the offense committed by the abuser-spouse against
the victim, the higher the mandatory minimum percentage of marital assets will be
awarded to the victim-spouse for the abuser’s misconduct.
38
See infra Part III.A.ii.
39
See infra Part III.A.ii.
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Part I of this Note discusses the hardships that domestic
violence victims face when attempting to commence a divorce,
pointing out the procedural obstacles that the legal system
currently has. It briefly discusses the rise of the domestic violence
movement and the slow evolution of New York’s divorce law. Part
I also critiques the development of the egregious and shocking
standard through an analysis of case law, pointing out the
problems victims continue to face today, even with New York’s
newly amended equitable distribution law. It discusses the
excessive discretion given to judges due to a lack of statutory
guidance, which results in inconsistent case law. In Part II, this
Note analyzes Factor 14, pointing out the issues left unresolved
even by the new amendment addressing domestic violence in
equitable distribution. Part III proposes new legislation to ensure
that victims of domestic violence no longer face inconsistent and
unjust distributions of marital property as a result of divorce
proceedings. It then applies the new legislation to cases discussed
throughout this Note to show its effectiveness in achieving
consistent and equitable results.
I. THE LAW OF EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION
A. Domestic Violence and Divorce Law
Generally, when people find themselves in irreparably unhappy
marriages, they seek to leave their relationship by filing for
divorce.
40
Couples break their union by working out financial and
parenting issues in ways that are legally recognized.
41
Victims of
domestic violence are no different—some want the option of
40
See Divorce Basics, N.Y. STATE UNIFIED CT. SYS.,
https://nycourts.gov/courthelp/family/divorceBasics.shtml [https://perma.cc/YY89-CFSF]
(last updated May. 5, 2021) (explaining how “[a] marriage doesn’t legally end until a Judge
signs the Judgment of Divorce”).
41
See id.
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divorce.
42
They want freedom, to no longer be attached to their
abuser and to move on without living in fear.
43
Like most
divorcees, victim-spouses look to separate their finances, including
marital properties and assets, efficiently and legally.
44
They also
want to prevent their abusers from making future decisions for
them, ones that spouses can make for one another.
45
And often
most importantly, victim-spouses want to restart their lives.
46
i. The Legal System Poses Challenges for Victim-Spouses
to Divorce
Victims of domestic violence face many issues when trying to
divorce.
47
First, for those who are financially dependent on their
abuser or are otherwise economically disadvantaged, the expenses
of divorce proceedings are simply not feasible. On average, the
cost of a divorce is approximately $15,000.
48
Unlike in other areas
of law,
49
New York does not provide free legal representation for
domestic violence victims in divorce proceedings.
50
Even if a
42
See Zoe Greenberg, Their Husbands Abused Them. Shouldn’t Divorce be Easy?, N.Y.
TIMES (May 11, 2018), https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/11/nyregion/divorce-domestic-
abuse-survivors.html?smid=url-share [https://perma.cc/88X5-E4NN].
43
See id.
44
See id.
45
See id. Unless otherwise limited, spouses are legally allowed to make healthcare
decisions for one another while they are married. See id.
46
See id.
47
See id. (explaining that domestic violence in a relationship further burdens the
already imperfect and often dreaded divorce process).
48
See Terin Miller, How Much Does a Divorce Cost on Average?, THESTREET,
https://www.thestreet.com/personal-finance/education/how-much-does-divorce-cost-
14882536 [https://perma.cc/V33V-NDKW] (last updated Apr. 3, 2020, 12:41 PM).
49
See Jillian Jorgensen, New York City Councilman Pushes Free Divorce Lawyers for
Domestic Violence Victims, N.Y. DAILY NEWS (Aug. 7, 2018, 4:30 PM),
https://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/ny-pol-divorce-lawyers-domestic-violence-
20180807-story.html [https://perma.cc/C9DX-D4KR]. New York passed legislation that
provides free legal representation for those fighting deportation and for low-income tenants
facing eviction. See id.
50
See id. Petitioners are not provided counsel for divorce proceedings because they take
place in Supreme Court. See id. Their only resort is a nonprofit or city-funded agency, where
there are not nearly enough attorneys to meet the needs of everyone. See Legal Help, NATL
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE, https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-
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victim were to appear pro se, court filing fees tend to be hundreds
of dollars, especially if the divorce is contested, as most are.
51
Second, there are procedural obstacles within the legal system.
The spouse who files for divorce must also serve process on the
other.
52
For those who are fortunate to afford an attorney, this
usually involves paying an additional fee to a third party to locate
the abuser and serve them with divorce papers.
53
The harder it is
to locate the abuser-spouse, the more costly and time-consuming
the divorce proceeding becomes, making it nearly impossible for
those with limited resources to meet this first step of the process.
54
Moreover, if both spouses still reside in the marital home, the
victim-spouse may face further danger after serving notice of the
divorce proceeding to his or her abuser.
Once the divorce proceeding reaches the court, abusers often
continue to mistreat the victim-spouse throughout the litigation in
what is deemed an “overlooked form of abuse.”
55
Abuser-spouses
often use the court system as a platform to control the victim by
filing fraudulent paperwork to conceal their true net worth, an
important factor for judges when deciding the distribution of
marital assets.
56
Moreover, such parties file frivolous claims to
financially burden their victim and delay the final judgment of
legal-help/ [https://perma.cc/5LXK-PH36] (last visited Feb. 6, 2021) (providing a list of legal
resources).
51
See Jorgensen, supra note 49. In 2020, New York’s initial filing fee was $210 alone.
See Maddy Teka, How to File for Divorce in New York, FINDLAW,
https://statelaws.findlaw.com/new-york-law/new-york-divorce-process.html
[https://perma.cc/6KTS-2WAT] (last updated June 12, 2020).
52
See Greenberg, supra note 42.
53
See id.
54
See id.
55
Sheila Burke, New State Law Seeks to Stop ‘Stalking by Way of the Courts, AP NEWS
(June 25, 2018), https://apnews.com/article/0249e6d67b1d419b9787cb6adb297cb7
[https://perma.cc/9RHZ-CSVV].
56
See Lindsay Dodgson, The Manipulative Tactics Psychological Abusers Use in Court
to Keep Control Over Their Victims, INSIDER (July 29, 2018, 5:05 AM),
https://www.insider.com/psychological-abusers-use-the-courts-to-control-their-victims-
2018-7 [https://perma.cc/DQ9Y-5UN2]. As part of the equitable distribution of marital
assets, judges consider the income and property of each party throughout the marriage as
well as during the commencement of the divorce action. See N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW §
236(B)(5)(d)(1) (McKinney 2021).
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divorce.
57
Often termed “stalking by way of the court,”
58
the abuse
may even continue throughout hearings and cross-examinations,
where victims are forced to face their abusers and relive the details
of their relationship, as private information about their personal
lives is used to humiliate them.
59
ii. The Rise of the Anti-Domestic Violence Movement and
Changes in Divorce Law
Domestic violence became commonly recognized in the United
States in the late 1800s.
60
However, it was not until shelters first
began to open in the early 1970s that the disadvantages faced by
victims of domestic violence became apparent.
61
In 1977, hospitals
started to formally identify procedures on how to recognize cases
and handle victims’ traumas.
62
Finally, in 1980, response agencies
were formally established to advocate for victims of domestic
violence, particularly to “reform the criminal justice system” in
57
See Burke, supra note 55. States like Tennessee have taken measures to advocate
for domestic violence victims by passing a law aimed to prevent batterers from purposely
“[f]iling frivolous lawsuits designed to bankrupt or inflict more harm on the people they
already have abused.” Id. This law will allow judges to determine whether a spouse has
filed a lawsuit simply to “harass or maliciously injure” a victim by way of attacking their
finances during divorce or child custody hearings. Id. New York has not passed similar
legislation and matrimonial courts continue to see this “very insidious form of domestic
violence committed through vexatious/abusive litigation.” Jessica T. v. Kieth T., 128
N.Y.S.3d 429, No. 33914/2013, 2020 WL 3163793, at *1–3, *8 (Sup. Ct. June 12, 2020)
(finding that the defendant used the judicial system as a platform to harass, intimidate,
and abuse the plaintiff for over six years by filing frivolous lawsuits, purposely prolonging
conferences, failing to pay court-ordered support, and bringing forth unsubstantiated
arguments).
58
Burke, supra note 55.
59
See Dodgson, supra note 56.
60
See Sydney Hyer, History of the Battered Women’s Movement, DEL. COAL. AGAINST
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, https://dcadv.org/blog/history-of-the-battered-womens-
movement.html [https://perma.cc/6S3E-W7BU] (last visited Mar. 10, 2021). In 1871,
Alabama and Massachusetts made it a crime for husbands to assault their wives. See id.
The same law was later adopted by North Carolina in 1874. See id.
61
See id. The first officially recognized shelter for domestic violence victims opened in
1974. See id.
62
See id.
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recognition that victims had “little recourse when being assaulted
by their intimate partners.
63
The rise of the domestic violence movement in 1980 coincided
with changes in New York’s divorce law when the State joined the
majority and adopted the law of equitable distribution.
64
This new
law now required courts to identify and distribute marital
properties equitably between divorcing spouses, while
“considering the circumstances of the case and of the respective
parties.”
65
Since its enactment in 1980, the equitable distribution law has
received much criticism for its implementation.
66
A 1986 Task
Force Report noted the law’s unfair application, observing that
judges were “predisposed to ensure that the [law did] not ‘make
reluctant Santa Clauses out of ex-husbands.’”
67
Furthermore, the
equitable distribution law did not address marital fault anywhere
within its factors.
68
It was five years after its enactment that the
63
About Us, DOMESTIC ABUSE INTERVENTION PROGRAMS, https://www.thedulut
hmodel.org/about-us/ (last visited Feb. 3, 2021) [hereinafter Duluth Model]. The Domestic
Abuse Intervention Program (“DAIP”) was created in 1980, opening the door for coordinated
response programs. See Hyer, supra note 60. Under DAIP, activists in the domestic violence
movement created “The Duluth Model,” implementing an interactive approach between
agencies to improve the response to domestic violence. See id.; Duluth Model, supra note
63. The Duluth Model has gained ongoing global recognition as agencies have come together
“to make positive change in the criminal justice system around battering.” Duluth Model,
supra note 63.
64
See ALAN D. SCHEINKMAN, INTRODUCTION TO PRACTICE COMMENTARIES, N.Y. DOM.
REL. LAW § 236 (McKinney 2021).
65
N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(c) (McKinney 2021). Prior to the establishment of
the equitable distribution law in 1980, the allocation of marital property was largely based
on which spouse held legal title to a respective title. See SCHEINKMAN, supra note 64.
Generally, the working male held title in his name alone. See id. Oftentimes, upon
dissolution of a marriage, the non-working spouse would not be awarded interest in the
marital property, unless joint tenancy was established in the respective property. See
Report of the New York Task Force on Women in the Courts, 15 FORDHAM URB. L. J. 11, 65
(1986) [hereinafter Task Force].
66
See SCHEINKMAN, supra note 64 (“[N]ational surveys have reported that women and
children tend to suffer an immediate decline in their standard of living in the aftermath of
divorce while men enjoy an increased standard of living.”).
67
Task Force, Abstract, supra note 65, at 67 (quoting Foster & Freer, Law and the
Family: O’Brien v. O’Brien, N.Y.L.J. (Jan. 9, 1986)). The Report of the New York State Task
Force on Women in the Courts is created by the New York Task Force on Women, a group
comprised of judges, attorneys, and academics who report on gender biases in the New York
court system and legal industry. See id., at Abstract.
68
See ALAN D. SCHEINKMAN, PRACTICE COMMENTARIES, C236B:25, N.Y. DOM. REL.
LAW § 236 (McKinney 2021). The 1980 statute listed ten factors under
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New York Court of Appeals determined that “[e]xcept in egregious
cases which shock the conscience of the court . . . [fault] is not a
‘just and proper’ factor for consideration in the equitable
distribution of marital property.”
69
The concept of “fault” has remained a significant consideration
in divorce law, especially in domestic violence cases.
70
Even with
its Domestic Relations statute, New York has a hearty history of
case law that has produced inconsistent holdings due to unsettled
judicial discretion surrounding domestic violence in divorce
proceedings. In all, the law of equitable distribution is “codified in
vague and uncertain directives, [and] will produce confused,
inconsistent, and unexpected results.”
71
B. New York’s Recognition of Domestic Violence Under the
Equitable Distribution Law
Before the addition of Factor 14, New York courts took on
different approaches concerning domestic violence and spousal
abuse. This Note gives an overview of the various ways New York
courts dealt with domestic violence under the “no-fault” equitable
distribution law.
i. The Rise of the Egregious and Shocking Standard
Upon its enactment, the law of equitable distribution codified a
catch-all provision under DRL 236: “[i]n determining an equitable
disposition of property . . . the court shall consider . . . any other
factor which the court shall expressly find to be just and proper.”
72
DRL § 236(B)(5)(d), nine specific guidelines, with the tenth to serve as a catch-all provision.
See id.
69
O’Brien v. O’Brien, 489 N.E.2d 712, 719 (N.Y. 1985).
70
See J. Herbie DiFonzo & Ruth C. Stern, Addicted to Fault: Why Divorce Reform Has
Lagged in New York, 27 PACE L. REV. 559, 561, 599 n.284 (2007).
71
Marsha Garrison, Good Intentions Gone Awry: The Impact of New York’s Equitable
Distribution Law on Divorce Outcomes, 57 BROOK. L. REV. 621, 739 (1991).
72
N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d)(16) (McKinney 2021). When first enacted in
1980, the catch-all factor was under DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)(10). See SCHEINKMAN, supra note
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By relying solely on this catch-all factor, courts adopted a standard
of “egregious fault,” which led to various definitions of
egregiousness within a marriage.
73
In 1984, the Second Department in Blickstein v. Blickstein held
that a spouse’s financial abandonment of his wife should not be a
consideration in an equitable distribution because it was not so
egregious as to shock the conscience of the court.
74
The Blickstein
court discussed the catch-all factor, reasoning that it was included
in the law “because the Legislature was unable to reach agreement
on whether fault was to be considered under equitable
distribution.”
75
It was not until a year later that the Court of
Appeals declared that fault may only be considered under the
catch-all factor when circumstances are so egregious as to shock
the conscience of the court.
76
For many years, the egregious and shocking standard under the
catch-all factor of equitable distribution was mostly considered by
lower courts. These courts developed their own definitions of the
standard and fashioned inconsistent equitable distribution
awards. Egregiousness in the realm of domestic violence arose in
Venkursawmy v. Venkursawmy, where the court awarded 100% of
the couple’s only asset to the victim-spouse.
77
Here, testimony
centered on two instances of domestic violence.
78
The first was
when the abuser-spouse had “rushed [the victim] with a knife.”
79
In the second instance of violence, the abuser-spouse set his victim
on fire by pouring a can of gasoline over her head and lighting a
match, leaving her with permanent injuries throughout her entire
68. With the addition of each factor under DRL § 236(B)(5)(d), the catch-all provision has
been renumbered to remain the last listed factor. See id. at C236B:36. This Note has taken
these additions and renumbering into account.
73
See Harriet Newman Cohen & Tim James, Egregious to a Fault: When Does Bad
Behavior Affect Financial Determinations?, N.Y. L. J. (July 28, 2008).
74
See Blickstein v. Blickstein, 472 N.Y.S.2d 110, 111–14 (App. Div. 1984).
75
Id. at 112. The court stated that the catch-all factor is clear, and its use is based on
“whether marital fault is a ‘just and proper’ consideration in determining [the] distribution
of marital property in light of the overall purpose of the equitable distribution law.” Id.
76
See O’Brien v. O’Brien, 489 N.E.2d 712, 719 (N.Y. 1985).
77
See Venkursawmy v. Venkursawmy, 1990 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 782, at *1–2, *5 (Sup.
Ct. Mar. 16, 1990).
78
See id. at *3–4.
79
Id. at *4.
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body.
80
The abuser-spouse pled guilty to attempted murder and
was sentenced to a minimum of five and a half years in prison.
81
Clearly, the severity of the domestic violence in Venkursawmy
rose to a standard of egregiousness that shocked the court’s
conscience.
82
Referring to the catch-all factor, the New York
County Supreme Court noted that this case “cries out for
determination on that basis alone.”
83
However, it was only after
it considered other factors under DRL 236 that the Venkursawmy
court awarded the victim-spouse 100% of the marital assets.
84
First, the victim-spouse contributed almost the entire down
payment on the house and made most of the mortgage payments
throughout the marriage.
85
Second, she remained the custodial
parent for the parties’ minor child while the abuser-spouse served
his sentence.
86
As such, the victim-spouse in Venkursawmy had
the advantage of two additional factors under the Domestic
Relations Law to weigh the division of marital property in her
favor. Even after acknowledging its strength, the court missed an
opportunity to rely on domestic violence as the decisive factor in
Not all court decisions result in convictions. Cases may involve
a lengthy history of domestic violence throughout the marriage
and never result in criminal charges. In Debeny v. Debeny, the
court admitted oral and written evidence to determine whether the
victim-spouse’s allegations of domestic violence were credible.
87
The Nassau County Supreme Court concluded that the defendant
violated the victim-spouse’s physical and mental well-being when
he subjected her to abuse throughout their thirty-six-year
marriage.
88
Specifically, the court found that in 1965, the abuser-
spouse broke the victim-spouse’s foot; in 1970, he caused her to
80
See id.
81
See id. at *1.
82
See id. at *4–5.
83
Venkursawmy v. Venkursawmy, 1990 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 782, at *5 (Sup. Ct. Mar.
16, 1990).
84
See id. at *4–5.
85
See id. at *2, *5.
86
See id. at *1–2, *5.
87
See Debeny v. Debeny, 1991 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 844, at *1 (Sup. Ct. Jan. 24, 1991).
88
See id. at *1, *10. The court based its determination on credible evidence produced
at trial. See id. at *4.
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break her ankle when he shoved her; in 1971, he broke her finger,
leaving her with permanent injuries; in 1979, he caused her to
break her other foot; in 1982, he pushed her, causing her to break
her arm, again leaving her with permanent injuries.
89
The court
also noted that since 1951, the defendant slapped the victim
between fifty and seventy times a year.
90
The court held that the
defendant’s assault of the victim was “at the very least, egregious
and . . . must be considered in determining equitable distribution
of the parties’ marital property.”
91
Describing the defendant’s
conduct as “so severe and so brutal as to clearly demonstrate gross
and complete disregard of the marital relationship[,]” the court
made it a point to highlight the significantly smaller stature of the
plaintiff compared to her abuser.
92
Yet even while relying heavily
on the catch-all factor in its determination of equitable
distribution, the court found that the victim was entitled to only
60% of the parties’ marital property, leaving the rest to her
abuser.
93
Even though Debeny met the egregious and shocking standard
as a result of its history of domestic violence,
94
in its discretion,
the court did not seem to view the domestic violence under the
catch-all factor significant enough to award the victim any more
than 60% of the parties’ assets.
95
Once the high standard of
egregious and shocking conduct is met, what ought to be
considered egregious “enough” to overcome the remaining factors
89
See id. at *1–2.
90
See id. The court recounted additional instances of abuse, including the abuser-
spouse pulling the victim’s shoulder out of its socket, punching her in the face causing two
of her teeth to break, and preventing her from having friends or family at the parties’
marital residence. See id. at *2–3.
91
Id. at *6. The victim-spouse, sixty-five years old, became epileptic, lost nearly half of
the use of her left arm, and was unemployed for over three decades. See id. at *7–8.
92
Id. at *5–6.
93
See Debeny v. Debeny, 1991 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 844, at *6–7 (Sup. Ct. Jan. 24, 1991).
The marital property included net proceeds from the sale of the marital residence,
investment accounts, savings accounts, and pension. See id. at *4–5.
94
See id. at *1–3, *6.
95
See id. at *4 (“From the credible evidence adduced at trial, the court finds that
plaintiff wife is entitled to sixty (60%) percent and defendant husband is entitled to forty
(40%) of the . . . marital property.”). Clearly disgusted by the history of violence at the hands
of the defendant, the court still went on to distribute the marital assets almost equally
among both parties, even though the victim remained the less-monied spouse. See id. at
*6–9.
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under DRL 236 so that victims can see a fair and just award of
marital property? Todays Factor 14 has yet to provide courts with
guidance.
ii. Discretion Becomes a Risk Under DRL 236
In Orofino v. Orofino, the Third Department upheld an award of
60% of a joint stock portfolio, valued at nearly two million dollars,
to the abuser-spouse.
96
Granting a divorce on the ground of cruel
and inhumane treatment, the lower court found that the husband
“was verbally abusive to plaintiff on a biweekly basis; was
physically abusive and threw an ashtray at plaintiff causing a
laceration to her scalp; threatened to commit arson; and placed the
muzzle of a rifle to plaintiff’s head and threatened to kill her.”
97
However, the court concluded that such conduct by the abuser-
spouse “did not rise to the level of that rare occasion where marital
fault should be considered[,]” thus not deserving greater
consideration in the equitable distribution of marital property.
98
In balancing the factors of DRL 236, the lower court considered
each party’s contributions to the marital property and placed
greater weight on the abuser’s sole and direct responsibility for the
joint investment portfolio throughout the marriage, noting that
the victim was simply a “caretaker of the children and the marital
residence.”
99
The Third Department affirmed and declared that
the lower court was “vested with discretion” and may distribute
marital assets any which way it deemed fit.
100
Orofino brings to light the problems surrounding an absence of
statutory guidance under the equitable distribution law. As a
discretionary balancing test, DRL 236 gives courts the power to
determine the weight that domestic violence ought to be allocated
in comparison to other factors. In fact, for forty years following its
96
See Orofino v. Orofino, 627 N.Y.S.2d 460, 462 (App. Div. 1995). The Third
Department also upheld the 50% distribution of the rest of the marital assets to the abuser-
spouse. See id. at 462 n.2.
97
Id. at 461.
98
Id. at 461–62.
99
Id. at 462.
100
Id.
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enactment, the equitable distribution law left it in judges
discretion to determine whether spousal abuse should even be
considered.
101
For example, the Third Department reversed an
equitable distribution award that favored the victim-spouse
because it found that the abusive spouse’s conduct, which included
verbal abuse, harassment, and several instances of physical
violence, did not rise to a level of egregiousness that this court
viewed as “outrageous or extreme as to shock the conscience . . .
and to justify [the abuser-spouse’s] divestiture of . . . marital
property.”
102
Although today’s Factor 14 provides that courts shall
regard domestic violence when determining the division of marital
property, there remains a substantial risk that judges will not
consider the seriousness of abusive conduct unless provided with
more clear guidance on its application.
iii. The Egregious and Shocking Standard Under Havell
v. Islam
103
When determining the distribution of marital property, may a
court admit evidence to show a history of domestic violence under
the catch-all factor?
104
The New York County Supreme Court
addressed this issue of first impression in Havell v. Islam, holding
that “a pattern of domestic violence, properly proven by competent
testimony and evidence, is a ‘just and proper’ factor to be
considered by the court in connection with the equitable
distribution of marital property . . . .
105
Justice Silbermann
101
See Cohen & James, supra note 73. Until the enactment of Factor 14 in 2020,
domestic violence could only be considered, if at all, under the catch-all factor of DRL
§ 236(B)(5)(d). See id.; Joel R. Brandes, The Resurrection of Marital Fault, N.Y. L. J. (May
18, 2020). Hence, from 1980 until 2020, courts had the power to determine that a spouse’s
admitted abusive actions were not extraordinary and shocking enough to be a quantifiable
factor in its determination of equitable distribution. See Cohen & James, supra note 73.
102
Kellerman v. Kellerman, 590 N.Y.S.2d 570, 571 (App. Div. 1992). The complaint
alleged twenty-seven instances of abuse, supported by dates and times. See id. The Third
Department found the victim-spouse’s review of her pleading and testimony as to the truth
of each allegation sufficient to support cruel and inhumane treatment for granting a
divorce. See id.
103
See Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807 (Sup. Ct. 2000).
104
See id. at 808.
105
Id. at 811.
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analyzed the facts of Havell under the Domestic Relations Law’s
catch-all factor and awarded the abused spouse nearly 100% of the
parties’ marital assets even though the victim was the sole
economic provider throughout the marriage.
106
In Havell, the victim-spouse commenced the divorce action after
her husband assaulted her with the intent of murder.
107
Wearing
yellow rubber gloves, the abuser-spouse pinned his wife down and
beat her over the head with a barbell and pipe, causing severe
injuries such as a broken nose, jaw, and teeth, and leaving her
with permanent brain damage and several surgeries to follow.
108
The abuser-spouse was indicted for second-degree attempted
murder and first-degree assault and sentenced to nearly eight
years in prison after pleading guilty to first-degree assault.
109
In the divorce action, the victim-spouse expressed instances of
domestic violence against both her and the parties’ children that
led up to her attempted murder.
110
The victim-spouse described
the abuser-spouse’s physical threats, including raising his fists, a
telephone, and a book to her; regular use of obscene language and
physical violence against her and the parties’ minor children, often
beating them, and intentional exposure of his sexual organs to the
parties’ children and their young friends through the clothing he
wore in the house.
111
The abuser-spouse requested that the court
exclude such evidence, arguing that since the alleged abuse
throughout the marriage had not prevented the victim-spouse
from being financially self-supporting, it, therefore “d[id] not
106
See Havell v. Islam, 751 N.Y.S.2d 449, 451–52, 454 (App. Div. 2002) (affirming the
trial court’s equitable distribution of marital assets by properly weighing the factors under
DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)). In total, the victim-spouse received 95.5% of the parties’ marital assets,
which was estimated at $13 million. See id. at 455. Since the abuser-spouse had been
unemployed, for living expenses he received $377,500 of the $4 million net proceeds from
the sale of the marital residence. See id. at 451.
107
See id. at 450–51.
108
See id.
109
See Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807, 808 (Sup. Ct. 2000). In his guilty plea, the
abuser-spouse confessed that he attacked his wife with the intent to cause her serious
physical injury. See id.
110
See id. at 808–10. The victim-spouse testified to this abuse during her Examination
Before Trial. See id.
111
See id. at 809–10. The victim-spouse also described the abuser-spouse’s vulgar
language against their housekeepers, him calling her a “f***ing idiot” and “old hag,” and
his use of vulgar language towards the parties’ son as a result of his learning difficulties.
Id.
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amount to egregious conduct” that should be considered in the
distribution of their marital assets.
112
Generally, an important factor for courts to consider under the
equitable distribution law is the income of each spouse during the
marriage and at the time the divorce proceeding is commenced.
113
Thus, having a higher income and income potential may result in
a lower allocation of marital assets.
114
The lower court found that
the abuser’s violent assault was “so egregious and shocking” that
consideration of financial impact was unnecessary and
distribution of nearly all the marital assets to the victim was
equitable and just.
115
Further, the court held that evidence offered
by the victim-spouse, such as testimony regarding violence against
her and the parties’ children was admissible to prove a history of
abuse throughout the marriage.
116
On appeal, the First
Department upheld the lower court’s use of the catch-all factor in
its consideration of the abuser-spouse’s violent conduct during the
marriage as well as his attempt to murder his wife and affirmed
112
Id. at 810. In his argument, the abuser-spouse relied on two cases, Wenzel v. Wenzel
and Thompson v. Thompson, both of which the court found to beunsupported,” “not
binding,” and “unpersuasive.” See Havell v. Islam, 751 N.Y.S.2d 449, 453 (App. Div. 2002).
In Wenzel v. Wenzel, the victim’s inability to financially support herself after her husband’s
physical attack was a factor in the analysis and ultimate award of equitable distribution.
See Wenzel v. Wenzel, 472 N.Y.S.2d 830, 833 (Sup. Ct. 1984) (explaining how the abuser-
spouse was convicted for attempted murder after he attacked the victim-spouse with a
knife). The second case, Thompson v. Thompson, applied the same analysis as in Wenzel
after the abuser-spouse raped the victim-spouse’s daughter, his stepdaughter, which
prevented the victim-spouse from keeping full-time employment. See Thompson v.
Thompson, 1990 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 792, at *1, *9 (Sup. Ct. Jan. 5, 1990) (finding that the
adverse effect on the victim-spouse, as a result of her daughter’s rape, prevented her from
being able to financially support herself and constituted egregious conduct, determinative
in equitable distribution).
113
See N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d)(1) (McKinney 2021). “[T]he income and
property of each party at the time of marriage, and at the time of the commencement of the
action[]” has been the first factor listed since the enactment of the equitable distribution
law. DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(1).
114
See DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(1).
115
Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807, 811 (Sup. Ct. 2000) (“[C]onduct resulting in
lasting emotional and physical harm to [the victim-spouse] and the parties’ children[] . . . if
proven, is so egregious and shocking that the court must invoke its equitable power so that
justice may be done between the parties.”).
116
See id. In order to prove a history of domestic violence, the victim-spouse may testify
to the abuser-spouse’s conduct against their children so long as she witnessed the said acts.
See id.
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the distribution of nearly all the marital property to the victim.
117
Although the victim-spouse had been the sole economic provider
throughout the twenty-one-year marriage and remained in a
financially superior position compared to her husband, the
egregious and shocking standard under the catch-all factor
overcame the weight of all other factors under DRL 236.
118
Havell set the stage for courts to recognize the severity of
domestic violence in divorce.
119
It illustrated the application of the
law of equitable distribution to an abusive marriage, finding that
domestic violence trumped a victim’s financial advantages.
120
Importantly, the court highlighted that “a person should not be
allowed to profit from his own wrongdoing . . . .”
121
Although
Havell provided a template for considering past instances of
spousal abuse and successfully awarded nearly 100% of marital
assets to a domestic violence victim, it was unable to effectuate
real change in the law. The parties’ abusive marriage spanned two
decades, likely restricting Havell from being used to support
claims of domestic violence in cases involving shorter
marriages.
122
Moreover, the exceptional facts of Havell also limit
its application and reach. The abuser’s attempt to murder his
117
See Havell, 751 N.Y.S.2d at 454 (“We find that the trial court properly exercised its
broad discretion in determining equitable distribution . . . [and] its determination is firmly
based on record evidence, and should not be disturbed.”).
118
See Havell v. Islam, 751 N.Y.S.2d 449, 451–52, 454 (App. Div. 2002). In addition to
the catch-all factor, the court looked at “the duration of the marriage and the age and health
of both parties” under DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)(2), finding that the victim-spouse’s health was
deterred as a result of her abuser-spouse’s violent assault. Id. at 451–52. Further, the court
also examined “any equitable claim to, interest in, or direct or indirect contribution made
to the acquisition of [the] marital property by the party not having title . . . and to the career
or career potential of the other party” under today’s DRL
§ 236(B)(5)(d)(7), finding that the abuser-spouse “had assisted only minimally with child-
rearing and managing the household.” Id.
119
See id. at 451–52, 454 (applying the catch-all factor to acknowledge that spousal
abuse deserved the greatest weight under DRL § 236).
120
See id. at 452–53 (rejecting the argument that when the victim is able to financially
support herself, consideration of past abuse ought to be disregarded with respect to
equitable distribution). Relying on McCann v. McCann, the Havell court narrowed
egregious and shocking conduct to apply “only when ‘the act in question grievously injures
some highly valued social principle.’” Id. at 453 (quoting McCann v. McCann, 593 N.Y.S.2d
917, 921 (Sup. Ct. 1993)).
121
Id. (noting that fault is a consideration in cases that deal with the “preservation of
human life and ‘the integrity of the human body’”) (citing McCann, 593 N.Y.S.2d at 922).
122
See id.
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spouse was extremely gruesome and horrific, egregious enough to
shock the conscience of any court, thus restricting its applicability
to domestic violence cases that rise to a similar level of heinous
conduct.
123
Without an alternative to the egregious and shocking
standard, Havell is limited to “cases where one spouse attempts to
murder the other spouse.”
124
Were the domestic abuse of a
financially superior victim to fall short of a murderous assault, it
is unlikely that Havell could be used to institute a similar limit on
an abuser’s award of marital property.
125
Nearly a decade later, the New York Court of Appeals revisited
the egregious and shocking standard and recognized Havell as the
prime example of the high standard of vicious assault necessary to
constitute egregious behavior that limits equitable distribution.
126
Importantly, the Court of Appeals stated that egregious conduct
in a divorce “should be only a truly exceptional situation, due to
outrageous or conscience-shocking conduct on the part of one
spouse, that will require the court to consider whether to adjust
the equitable distribution of the assets.”
127
Citing Havell’s
“vicious assault of [the] spouse in [the] presence of children,” it
went on to say that “[a]bsent these types of extreme circumstances,
courts are not in the business of regulating how spouses treat one
another.”
128
The State’s highest court has not revisited the
egregious and shocking standard under the equitable distribution
law since. And today’s addition of domestic violence as a
consideration in equitable distribution does not provide clarity on
the efficacy of this decision.
123
See Havell, 751 N.Y.S.2d at 454. Affirmed by the First Department, the trial court
held that evidence of domestic violence can only be acknowledged in equitable distribution
if it is “so egregious and shocking that the court must invoke its equitable power so that
justice may be done between the parties.” Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807, 811 (Sup. Ct.
2000).
124
Cohen & James, supra note 73 (describing the standard in Havell as the “de facto
‘serious violent felony’ standard”).
125
See id. (“Because of the extreme nature of that attack, the court noted that it ‘did
not reach the issue of whether the acts of domestic violence committed by the husband prior
to April 22, 1999, should further reduce the husband’s award.’”).
126
See Howard S. v. Lillian S., 14 N.Y.3d 431, 436 (2010) (holding that adultery by a
spouse was not considered egregious conduct for the purposes of determining equitable
distribution).
127
Id.
128
Id.
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iv. A Lost Attempt to Limit the Egregious and Shocking
Standard
Six years after deciding Havell, Justice Silbermann loosened
some of its factual distinctions when she awarded 100% of the
marital assets to the victim-spouse in DeSilva v. DeSilva.
129
The
facts of DeSilva differed from Havell. The parties in DeSilva were
married for eleven years as opposed to the twenty-one in Havell.
130
And although the abuser-spouse had an arrest record, he was
never arrested as a result of domestic violence, nor had he
attempted to murder his wife.
131
But what the two cases had in
common was a history of domestic violence abuse.
In DeSilva, the victim-spouse testified that throughout her
marriage, the abuser-spouse verbally abused her, spat on her, and
threw items at her (including a duffle bag at her stomach while
she was pregnant).
132
Concerning equitable distribution, the court
conducted a balancing of factors under DRL 236, noting that the
victim-spouse earned nearly double her husband’s salary,
133
and
further pointed out that “[t]he future circumstances of defendant
may be problematic due to his alcohol abuse and anger
management problems which affect his ability to retain a job.
134
Important was the analysis under the catch-all factor. Justice
Silbermann highlighted that a history of spousal abuse alone may
rise to the level of fault, significantly lowering the attempted
murder or violent felony standard offered in Havell.
135
The court
129
See DeSilva v. DeSilva, No. 350818/05, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *10 (Sup.
Ct. Aug. 18, 2006).
130
See id. at *1 (“The wife testified to a long history of abuse during the parties’ 11-
year marriage . . . .”).
131
See id. at *4 (noting that the abuser-spouse was arrested for various non-domestic
incidents, including a physical confrontation with a cab driver, a dispute on the subway,
and a physical altercation involving the victim-spouse’s family).
132
See id. at *2–3. The victim-spouse testified that the abuser-spouse would verbally
abuse her in front of the parties’ children by calling her a “c***” and “w****.” See id. at *2.
133
See id. at *6 (evaluating income and property of each party at the time of
commencement of the divorce action under DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)(1)).
134
Id. at *7 (evaluating the future financial circumstances of the parties under what
is today’s DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)(7)).
135
See DeSilva v. DeSilva, No. 350818/05, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *10 (Sup.
Ct. Aug. 18, 2006).
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held that the victim’s testimony proved “a pattern of domestic
violence warranting an unequal division of marital assets[]” and
awarded 100% of the property to the abused spouse.
136
Therefore,
under the catch-all factor, a history of abuse throughout the
marriage, even without a criminal conviction for domestic
violence, garnered the greatest weight and trumped all other
factors including the superior financial position of the victim-
spouse.
Most significantly, the DeSilva court attempted to lower the
egregious and shocking standard for misconduct in divorce
proceedings involving spousal abuse.
137
The court made no
reference to the egregious and shocking standard, nor did the court
base its decision on a conviction of domestic violence.
138
The
court’s decision to distribute the entirety of the marital property
to the financially superior victim-spouse hinged on the fact that
there was a history of domestic violence that was supported by
sufficient evidence.
139
Moreover, the court recognized that abuse
need not be predominantly physical to constitute domestic violence
under the equitable distribution law.
140
The DeSilva court got it right when it tackled the limitations of
Havell and persisted to penalize spousal abuse, identifying
domestic violence as a significant factor in equitable
distribution.
141
DeSilva recognized the importance of all spousal
abuse, not just those that led to criminal convictions or severe
136
Id. In addition to the court awarding the plaintiff all marital assets, the judgment
assigned the defendant sole responsibility for all marital loans, except for an Auto Loan.
See id. As such, the abuser-spouse was liable for 92% of the marital debts. See id.
137
See Joanna Grossman, The Financial Penalty for Spousal Abuse: A New York Judge
Ups the Ante, By Awarding All Marital Property to the Abuse Victim, FINDLAW (Sept. 5,
2006), https://supreme.findlaw.com/legal-commentary/the-financial-penalty-for-spousal-
abuse-a-new-york-judge-ups-the-ante-by-awarding-all-marital-property-to-the-abuse-
victim.html [https://perma.cc/BKY2-U4Q7].
138
See id.
139
See DeSilva, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *7, *10 (“[I]t is the opinion of this
court that there has been proven by competent testimony a pattern of domestic violence
warranting an unequal division of marital assets.”).
140
See Cohen & James, supra note 73 (noting that majority of the abuser-spouse’s
violent conduct was verbal).
141
See DeSilva v. DeSilva, No. 350818/05, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *10 (Sup.
Ct. Aug. 18, 2006). Justice Silbermann recognized the permanent emotional difficulties
faced by domestic violence victims and the positive effect that a justifiable and equitable
distribution of marital assets may bring to victims. See id. at *9–10.
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assault. It attempted to expand the Havell decision beyond cases
of attempted murder, with minimal reference to a standard of
egregiousness.
142
DeSilva also recognized the relevance of
systemic spousal abuse throughout a marriage, even in those not
as lengthy as Havell’s. Notably, the DeSilva decision prevented
an abusive spouse without a domestic violence conviction from
Although DeSilva produced a strong holding and rationale, as a
New York County Supreme Court decision, its authority is limited:
DeSilva was never appealed. Thus, judges are free to overlook the
importance of DeSilva and rely on various prior definitions of the
egregious and shocking standard. Without proper statutory
direction under today’s Factor 14, the DeSilva standard risks
falling through the cracks.
143
II. AN ANALYSIS OF FACTOR 14
Effective May 3, 2020, New York courts are required to consider
“the nature, extent, duration and impact” of domestic violence
under Factor 14 to determine equitable distribution.
144
Questions
surrounding the application of Factor 14 and the use of the
egregious and shocking standard emerged as litigators raised
concerns over the amendment’s effect on divorce proceedings.
145
How should allegations of domestic violence play into a court’s
142
See Cohen & James, supra note 73 (expanding the significance of fault in
determining the equitable distribution of marital property).
143
For example, were a court to place the greatest weight on economic factors like DRL
§ 236(B)(5)(d)(1) and DRL § 236(B)(5)(d)(9), as opposed to non-economic factors (such as a
history of domestic violence under Factor 14), the abuser’s small salary and job instabilities
would outweigh the victim’s higher salary and earning potential. See DeSilva, 2006 N.Y.
Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *6–7. Thus, disregarding the DeSilva standard puts Factor 14 at risk
of being balanced out. See Grossman, supra note 137 (noting that a failure to utilize DeSilva
to rely on a finding of domestic violence may have awarded the abuser-spouse greater than
50% of the marital assets and a far smaller share of their debts).
144
See N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d)(14) (McKinney 2021) (“In determining an
equitable disposition of property . . . the court shall consider . . . whether either party has
committed an act or acts of domestic violence . . . against the other party and the nature,
extent, duration and impact of such act or acts . . . .”).
145
See Turbowitz, supra note 27; see also Brandes, supra note 101.
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analysis of other factors under DRL 236?
146
Moreover, how much
should spousal abuse “skew” judicial discretion in the distribution
of marital property?
147
A. Outcomes Continue To Be Far From Just
The flaws of the Domestic Relations Law were observed in July
2020. In Y.L. v. L.L., the New York Supreme Court applied the
equitable distribution law in a divorce action regarding a forty-
year marriage overcome with systematic abuse.
148
The parties
married in 1969, immigrated to the United States, and had two
children by 1982.
149
They grew increasingly wealthy during the
marriage, both parties contributing to business endeavors and
jointly purchasing real estate.
150
At trial, the victim-spouse testified to instances of domestic
violence that began as early as 1972, when the abuser-spouse
punched the victim in her mouth and knocked her teeth out.
151
Court records indicated that the attack resulted in “permanent
injury, impairment and pain to [the victim’s] jaw and mouth which
she still suffers from [today].”
152
The victim-spouse underwent
various surgeries and dental procedures and continues to
regularly receive medical attention for this injury.
153
At trial, the
abuser-spouse did not refute the victim’s testimony and
acknowledged that “it took place ‘a long time ago.’”
154
In another
incident, the abuser-spouse kicked the victim in her stomach while
she was pregnant, causing her to be hospitalized.
155
146
See Turbowitz, supra note 27.
147
See id.
148
See Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *1–2 (Sup. Ct. July 29, 2020).
149
See id.
150
See id. Prior to the marriage, the parties had no pre-marital assets or separate
property. However, during the course of their marriage, they lived an affluent lifestyle and
acquired significant wealth. See id. at *2.
151
See id. at *2.
152
Id.
153
See id.
154
Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.S.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *2 (Sup. Ct. July 29, 2020).
155
See id.
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In addition to the physical violence, there was also significant
emotional abuse throughout the marriage.
156
At trial, the victim-
spouse provided credible testimony indicating that the abuser-
spouse had an overbearing personality and was “unpredictable,
angry, controlling, manipulative, secretive and cold[]” throughout
their marriage.
157
She recalled instances when the abuser-spouse
turned off the water in her home and purposely deactivated the
elevator after her knee surgery.
158
The parties’ adult children
provided testimony in support of the victim-spouse’s allegations,
stating that the abuser-spouse “had a ‘very aggressive temper,’
would hit’ [their] mother, and ‘sometimes choke her when he got
very aggressive.’”
159
This pattern of abuse spanned from the
beginning of the marriage in 1969 until the parties’ separation in
2012.
160
On the issue of equitable distribution, the Y.L. court recognized
eight factors it deemed worthy of evaluation.
161
With regard to the
domestic violence incurred by the victim-spouse throughout the
marriage, the court only considered its effect under Factor 2, “the
duration of the marriage and the age and health of both
parties[.]”
162
The court noted that the abuser’s 1972 assault on
the victim-spouse left permanent physical damage to her mouth
156
See id.
157
Id. (stating that when the abuser-spouse felt jealous or threatened by the victim,
he would force her to resign from work and forego career opportunities).
158
See id. at *3.
159
Id. (noting that the victim-spouse and the parties’ adult daughter also testified that
the abuser-spouse had several extramarital affairs in the parties’ marital residence).
160
Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.S.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *3 (Sup. Ct. July 29, 2020)
(emphasizing the victim-spouse supported the abuser-spouse’s businesses, worked full
time, and functioned as the primary caretaker of the parties’ children throughout their
marriage).
161
See id. at *14; see also N.Y. DOM. REL. LAW § 236(B)(5)(d) (McKinney 2021) (stating
that, “[i]n determining an equitable disposition of property . . . the court shall consider: (1)
the income and property of each party . . . at the time of the commencement of the action;
(2) the duration of the marriage and the age and health of both parties; . . . (6) any award
of maintenance . . . ; (7) any equitable claim to, interest in, or direct or indirect contribution
made to the acquisition of such marital property by the party not having title . . . . ; (8) [T]he
liquid or non-liquid character of all marital property; (9) the probable future financial
circumstances of each party; (10) the impossibility or difficulty of evaluating any component
asset or any interest in a business . . . ; (12) the wasteful dissipation of assets by either
spouse . . . .”).
162
DOM. REL. § 236(B)(5)(d)(2).
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and jaw.
163
Comparing the health of both parties, the court also
found that the victim-spouse suffered from “depression and
anxiety at least partially related to instances of domestic violence
in her marriage[,]” whereas the abuser was significantly healthier
despite being older than the victim.
164
The court cited Havell and
noted that the victim-spouse’s continued pain and discomfort as a
result of the injuries caused by the violence are pertinent to the
issue of equitable distribution, weighing Factor 2 in her favor.
165
Proceeding to evaluate the remaining factors under the equitable
distribution law, the court found that the abuser-spouse was in a
superior financial position, had greater assets available to him,
owned a largely profitable business, and had invested interests
that allowed him to retire.
166
In comparison, the victim-spouse
had less of an earning capacity, maintained a struggling business,
and needed to work full-time, the possibility of which was
diminishing due to her age and chronic health issues.
167
Without further consideration of the history of domestic
violence, which was sufficiently proven by the credible evidence
presented at trial, the court still held that “marital assets should
be distributed as equally as possible[]” because of the long
duration of the marriage.
168
Moreover, by weighing Factor 2 in
her favor, the court merely granted the victim-spouse a chance “to
attempt to retain [the marital] homes by purchasing [the abuser-
spouse’s] equitable share thereof.”
169
Y.L. demonstrates the discretionary risks that remain in the law
of equitable distribution. The court did not independently regard
domestic violence under DRL 236. Although it discussed the
permanent effects of the abuse on the victim-spouse, the sole
163
See Y.L., 129 N.Y.S.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *2, *17.
164
Id. at *17 (“[T]here is no doubt that Wife’s health is more precarious than
Husband’s.”).
165
See id.
166
See Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.S.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *16–17 (Sup. Ct. July 29,
2020).
167
See id.
168
Id. at *23 (noting that the marriage began with no separate property and lasted
forty-seven years). “While these parties may have contributed to certain assets unequally,
they accumulated everything that they currently own together.” Id.
169
Y.L., 129 N.Y.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *17, *48 (emphasis added) (granting
the victim-spouse a right to purchase the abuser’s share of the equity in both their marital
homes).
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weight of the victim’s health under Factor 2 did no more than
provide a near-equal split of the marital property.
170
Moreover,
the court failed to consider the catch-all factor, which historically
served as a safety net for victims in equitable distribution
proceedings.
171
Further, the facts of Y.L. easily met the elements
addressed in DeSilva.
172
Like in DeSilva, a history of abuse
throughout the marriage, sans criminal conviction, was
sufficiently proven by multiple credible witnesses. Y.L. even
surpassed the DeSilva standard because it involved both
emotional and physical violence, which caused permanent
injuries, and the victim-spouse was in a financially inferior
position compared to her abuser. The extent of judicial discretion
allowed in Y.L. counters the advocacy for domestic violence
victims, which supported the enactment of Factor 14 in the first
place.
B. Factor 14 Raises Additional Concerns
Even though New York amended DRL 236 to expressly codify
domestic violence as a factor in property division, it has yet to
compel courts to follow a substantive outline. The lack of statutory
language brings to light many risks. First, the egregious and
shocking standard has not been explicitly abrogated by the
courts.
173
Presumably, Factor 14 still maintains a standard of
misconduct for domestic violence to be met.
174
If so, where does
this leave the judicial system?
175
The concern here is that courts
will continue to rely on case law like Havell in their application of
170
See id. at *16–17.
171
See id. at *14 (finding that many factors did not apply and were therefore given
minimal or no weight at all).
172
See DeSilva v. DeSilva, No. 350818/05, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *10 (Sup.
Ct. Aug. 18, 2006) (holding that “a pattern of domestic violence warrant[ed] an unequal
division of marital assets”).
173
See Brandes, supra note 101 (raising the uncertainty of whether the amendment
under DRL § 236 has abrogated the egregious and shocking standard); see also Howard S.
v. Lillian S., 14 N.Y.3d 431, 436 (2010) (confirming the high threshold of the egregious and
shocking standard that must be met under the equitable distribution law).
174
See Brandes, supra note 101 (reasoning that the former egregious and shocking
standard now may be replaced with a “lesser standard than egregious misconduct”).
175
See Turbowitz, supra note 27.
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Factor 14, which may unnecessarily create a higher standard for
the domestic violence factor.
176
In turn, Factor 14 will carry little
weight in the grand scheme of the sixteen equitable distribution
factors. This would defy the legislative intent of the amendment,
which aimed to guide courts in preventing awards from domestic
violence victims to their abusers.
177
Although evoking a proper
outcome, the egregious and shocking standard under the facts of
Havell should not be relied on by judges when considering
domestic violence in equitable distribution cases, as it can
counteract loopholes that the amendment aimed to resolve.
Second, even if Factor 14 is considered, there is a great risk that
judicial discretion may allow a victim-spouse’s superior financial
position to outweigh the consideration of domestic violence,
especially in the absence of heinous misconduct like an attempted
murder of the victim-spouse. There is no guarantee that a
criminal conviction of domestic violence will trump the remaining
factors unless a court, by preference, decides that it ought to.
Furthermore, it leaves unaddressed the range of physical or
emotional abuse that is required to be shown to support a pattern
of domestic violence, especially in the absence of a criminal
conviction. How much judicial discretion should be allowed when
balancing the “nature, extent, duration and impact” of spousal
abuse to meet the legislature’s goal of protecting victim-
spouses?
178
The amended statute does not provide the consistent
and just outcomes that the Senate sought to invoke.
179
176
The New York Court of Appeals found Havell as the principal case addressing
domestic violence in divorce proceedings as they pertain to the equitable distribution of
marital assets. See Howard S., 14 N.Y.3d at 436.
177
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019) (“This absence of law has led to numerous
cases where victims of domestic violence, are re-traumatized and are forced to compensate
their abusers, because of their income and the duration of their marriage. An egregious
example of this lack of legal certainty is what occurred in Laura Panek’s case.”).
178
See Turbowitz, supra note 27 (“Will [judges] seem callous in issuing a decision
acknowledging the veracity of the abuse allegations but finding the abuse insufficient to
skew the asset division percentage?”).
179
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019) (proposing an amendment to ensure “that
the impact that abuse has on a relationship and the awards of divorce proceedings are not
subject to unreliable and inconsistent interpretations by the divorce courts”).
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III. PROPOSED LEGISLATION
Although DRL 236 mandates that courts account for domestic
violence, the uncertainties surrounding Factor 14 risk producing
unreliable and inconsistent interpretations. Analogous to the
protection offered to victim-spouses under the California Code,
which creates a rebuttable presumption that a criminally
convicted abuser cannot receive spousal maintenance from his or
her victim-spouse,
180
this Note suggests new legislation takes a
more punitive stance concerning marital asset distributions to
abuser-spouses, expands the DeSilva standard, and provides
courts with clearer guidelines on the application of domestic
violence under DRL 236. This legislation will also abrogate the
egregious and shocking standard in New York and bring just
outcomes for victims of abuse.
A. Mandatory Minimum/Maximum Equitable Distribution
Guidelines Using a Two-Pronged Test
To meet the legislative goals of DRL 236, this Note proposes that
equitable distribution under Factor 14 be rewritten to implement
a two-pronged test that uses mandatory minimum/maximum
equitable distribution guidelines. Establishing pre-determined
mandatory guidelines restricts judicial discretion and protects
victims while penalizing abusers for their wrongdoings. The pre-
determined mandatory minimum serves as a floor for victim-
spouses, guaranteeing that their equitable distribution award is
no less than a set percentage of the parties’ marital assets. In
turn, this will counter and serve as a ceiling for the abuser-
spouses, automatically capping their interest in the marital
assets.
180
See CAL. FAM. CODE § 4325(a)(1) (West 2020).
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i. Prong One
The mandatory minimum/maximum distributions will be
determined by a two-pronged test. In a proceeding for the
dissolution of marriage, if a spouse is or has been criminally
convicted of a domestic violence misdemeanor or felony under New
York’s Penal Law,
181
that conviction will trigger the mandatory
minimum/maximum equitable distribution guidelines under
prong one. Here, the mandatory distribution guidelines will follow
the abuser-spouse’s offense under the Penal Law, taking into
account the ranges of felony and misdemeanor classifications.
182
Upon the abuser’s conviction, the victim-spouse will automatically
receive a mandatory minimum distribution of marital property
that is in line with the offense committed subject to the Penal Law.
The greater the classification of the offense committed by the
abuser-spouse against the victim, the higher the mandatory
minimum percentage of marital assets that will be awarded to the
victim-spouse for the abuser’s misconduct. Importantly, courts
shall look at the conduct of the crime on its face as well as any
admissions of intent made by the defendant.
183
And courts are not
bound by [a] defendant’s generous plea bargain.”
184
Under this new legislation, a conviction for domestic violence of
the lowest felony offense under the Penal Law will trigger a
mandatory minimum equitable distribution award of 75% of the
181
See N.Y. PENAL LAW § 70.00 (McKinney 2019).
182
Felony classifications are based on the category of conviction, ranging from Class A
felony to Class E felony. Within each classification, there are further distinctions, such as
Class A-I and A-II felony or Class B violent or Class B non-violent felony. For example,
felonies in New York range from a minimum of twenty years in prison for attempted murder
in the first degree to one and a half years in prison for a Class E Violent felony. PENAL
§ 70.00. Therefore, this Note proposes that a similar minimum punitive scale be
administered for equitable distribution: the greater the grade of felony, the higher the
mandatory distribution of marital property is awarded to the victim.
183
See Havell v. Islam, 751 N.Y.S.2d 449, 454 (App. Div. 2002) (characterizing the
abuser-spouse’s attack on his wife as an attempted murder rather than assault in the first
degree to which he pled guilty to); Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807, 808 (Sup. Ct. 2000)
(confirming that the defendant intended to cause his wife serious physical injury even
though he pled guilty to assault).
184
Havell, 751 N.Y.S.2d at 454 (“Based upon the evidence of defendant’s conduct
presented to the court, the court had ample evidence . . . to find that his conduct was an
attempted murder.”).
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parties’ marital assets to the victim-spouse. The remaining
division of the marital assets is left to the judge’s discretion.
Therefore, once a party is convicted of a felony offense, the
domestic violence factor will automatically outweigh all remaining
factors under DRL 236, barring the abuser from receiving more
than 25% of the marital assets. The mandatory minimum
equitable distribution scale will proceed to increase, keeping in
line with the grading system under the Penal Code, and will reach
a mandatory 100% distribution to the victim-spouse for Class A
felonies.
The same principles apply when an abuser-spouse is convicted
for a domestic violence misdemeanor under the Penal Law. Under
the new legislation, a conviction for domestic violence of the lowest
misdemeanor offense under the Penal Law will trigger a
mandatory minimum equitable distribution award of 60% of the
parties’ marital property to the victim. The remaining division of
assets is left to the judges discretion. Hence, the domestic violence
factor will outweigh the remaining factors under DRL 236,
maximizing the abuser’s distribution to less than half of the
marital property. The concept of mandatory minimum/maximum
distribution guidelines will serve as a tool to restrict judicial
discretion in matrimonial cases dealing with domestic violence. It
will make the law of equitable distribution more consistent and
reliable.
185
Prong one of the new legislation provides an
alternative to the egregious and shocking standard developed
under Havell, such that equitable distribution awards
predominantly favoring victim-spouses are not limited to cases of
egregious misconduct like attempted murder.
ii. Prong Two
If a spouse has not been criminally convicted for domestic
violence, then this Note proposes that spousal abuse claims in
divorce proceedings be assessed under prong two. If a spouse
185
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019) (“This legislation would ban divorce courts
from . . . allowing the equitable division of marital assets if the spouse that would receive
these awards are convicted of domestic violence and supplemental charges against the other
person in the relationship.”).
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makes allegations of domestic violence for which there is no
criminal conviction, then they must provide credible evidence for
the trial court to make specific findings of violence. To do so, the
alleged victim-spouse must provide evidence of at least one
instance of violent conduct by the alleged abuser that resulted in
serious bodily injury
186
or credible evidence of a history of domestic
violence throughout the marriage.
187
For example, to prove the
former, the alleged victim may produce medical records showing
permanent physical injuries caused by the alleged abuser, for
which the victim continues to receive medical attention.
188
To
show that a history of domestic violence existed throughout the
marriage, the victim-spouse may offer testimony depicting
instances of the abuser’s conduct, such as physical threats using
fists or objects, use of obscene language, vulgar name-calling,
spitting, and other physical violence.
189
Moreover, the victim-
spouse “may testify to acts of physical or emotional abuse
committed upon [the victim] or the children, to the extent the acts
were committed in [the victim’s] presence.”
190
If witnessed by the
victim-spouse, conduct against the children may include the use of
vulgar language or name-calling, physical violence or threats
thereof, and intentional exposure of the abuser-spouse’s sexual
organs.
191
On the contrary, evidence of conduct like adultery or
186
Serious bodily injury includes permanent injury, such as the loss of use of a body
part as a result of physical violence. See Debeny v. Debeny, 1991 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 844, at
*2 (Sup. Ct. Jan. 24, 1991) (“[T]he defendant pushed the plaintiff, causing her to break her
left arm. She now suffers 40% loss of use thereof.”).
187
See Havell, 718 N.Y.S.2d at 811 (“Pattern of domestic violence, properly proven by
competent testimony and evidence, is a ‘just and proper’ factor to be considered by the court
in connection with the equitable distribution of marital property . . . .”).
188
See Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937, at *2 (Sup. Ct. July 29, 2020)
(describing the permanent injuries caused by the abuser-spouse, which forced the victim-
spouse to undergo various surgeries and dental procedures and receive medical attention
to this day).
189
See Havell v. Islam, 718 N.Y.S.2d 807, 809–10 (Sup. Ct. 2000); see also DeSilva v.
DeSilva, No. 350818/05, 2006 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2489, at *2–3 (Sup. Ct. Aug. 18, 2006)
(spitting, cursing, throwing duffle bag at pregnant wife).
190
Havell, 718 N.Y.S.2d at 811.
191
See id. at 809–10.
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infidelity would be insufficient to support a victim-spouse’s claim
of domestic abuse throughout the marriage.
192
Once a court finds that the victim-spouse has sufficiently proven
their allegations of domestic violence using credible evidence,
prong two triggers a rebuttable presumption that invokes a
mandatory minimum equitable distribution award of 75% of the
parties’ marital assets to the victim-spouse. Similar to the
California Code, the alleged perpetrating spouse may rebut the
presumption by a preponderance of the evidence showing the
contrary.
193
To meet this burden, the accused must, at the very
least, offer evidence that shows that the single incidence claimed
by the alleged victim-spouse did not result in serious bodily injury
and that it was the alleged victim-spouse who acted violently
against the alleged perpetrator in a way that was not in self-
defense, or any other evidence deemed sufficient by the trial court
to rebut the accusation. If the alleged perpetrator is unable to
meet its burden by a preponderance of the evidence, then the
mandatory minimum/maximum equitable distribution guidelines
will be triggered, and the victim-spouse will be awarded a
minimum of 75% of the parties’ marital property. Judicial
discretion may be used to determine the remaining distribution of
property under the factors of DRL 236, so long as neither party
becomes incapable of self-support as a result.
However, if the alleged abuser-spouse can successfully rebut the
presumption of domestic violence by a preponderance of the
evidence, then the court has full judicial discretion to balance the
remaining factors under DRL 236 to equitably distribute the
marital property, without invoking the mandatory
minimum/maximum guidelines. Similarly, if the court finds that
the alleged victim-spouse did not provide credible evidence of
domestic violence to trigger prong two, then the court remains
with full discretion under DRL 236.
192
See Howard S. v. Lillian S., 14 N.Y.3d 431, 436 (2010) (“While adultery, and many
of its unintended consequences, will undoubtedly cause a great deal of anguish and distress
for the other spouse, it does not fit within the legal concept of egregious conduct.”).
193
See CAL. FAM. CODE § 4325(a) (West 2020) (creating a rebuttable presumption that
prohibits “an award of spousal support to the convicted spouse from the injured spouse”);
FAM. § 4325(c) (“The rebuttable presumption . . . may be rebutted by a preponderance of
the evidence.”).
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The mandatory minimum/maximum equitable distribution
guidelines under the two-pronged test meet the legislative goals of
DRL 236.
194
The new legislation adds restrictions on the equitable
division of assets to ensure that domestic violence victims are
protected from unjust awards to their abusers. Moreover, it goes
beyond former Senator Carlucci’s initial proposal by addressing
domestic violence not resulting in convictions.
195
Importantly, the
new legislation incorporates the DeSilva standard by eliminating
the egregious and shocking standard, penalizing spousal abuse,
recognizing the various types of abuse in divorce cases, and
acknowledging domestic violence as the factor deserving the most
significance in equitable distribution. The clearer guidelines
under the proposed legislation will ensure consistent
interpretations by courts and will generate just and reliable
awards, shielding victims from continued abuse.
B. Application of the Proposed Legislation
To demonstrate the effectiveness of the new legislation, the
following is an application of the mandatory minimum/maximum
equitable distribution guidelines under the two-pronged test to
select cases previously discussed.
i. Venkursawmy v. Venkursawmy
196
After the abuser-spouse pled guilty to attempted murder, the
court in Venkursawmy awarded the victim-spouse 100% of the
marital home, basing its determination on the catch-all factor, the
victim’s contributions to the marital property, and her status as
the custodial parent to the parties’ minor child.
197
There is a
question of whether the same decision would have been reached
194
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019).
195
See id.
196
See Venkursawmy v. Venkursawmy, 1990 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 782 (Sup. Ct. Mar. 16,
1990).
197
See supra Part I.B.i and accompanying text.
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using Factor 14 had other factors under DRL 236 not been used in
the victim-spouse’s favor. What if the parties’ children were
already grown, not requiring custodianship by the victim-spouse?
Or what if the victim-spouse had not been in a financial position
that allowed her to make most of the payments for the marital
property throughout the marriage?
Under the new legislation, the abuser-spouse’s conviction for
attempted murder triggers the mandatory minimum/maximum
guidelines under prong one. Here, the conviction of attempted
murder, regardless of the abuser-spouse’s plea, is a Class A felony.
This classification of the offense committed by the abuser-spouse
automatically invokes a mandatory minimum distribution of 100%
of the marital property to the victim-spouse. No additional factors,
such as the victim’s contributions to the marital property or her
custodianship of a minor child are considered in the determination
of the equitable distribution award. There is no need for judicial
discretion, thus all matrimonial proceedings involving attempted
murder convictions and the like would receive the same treatment,
allowing for consistent and reliable awards.
ii. Debeny v. Debeny
198
To demonstrate the severity of the abuse, the Debeny court
provided a comprehensive list of the heinous domestic violence
caused by the abuser-spouse throughout the parties’ marriage, yet
the court distributed only 60% of the marital assets to the
victim.
199
Were the facts of Debeny evaluated today, nothing
prevents a court from using Factor 14 to support the same award
of nearly 40% of the marital assets to an abuser-spouse. What
protection does Factor 14 even guarantee?
Without a criminal conviction, the new legislation would require
that the court evaluate the victim-spouse’s allegations under
prong two. In Debeny, the victim-spouse provided credible
evidence of multiple instances of abuse that resulted in serious,
permanent bodily injuries and also showed a pattern of abuse
198
See Debeny v. Debeny, 1991 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 844 (Sup. Ct. Jan. 24, 1991).
199
See supra Part I.B.i and accompanying text.
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throughout the marriage. This would trigger the rebuttable
presumption under prong two, allowing the abuser-spouse an
opportunity to overcome the presumption of domestic violence.
Based on the facts in Debeny, it is unlikely that the abuser-spouse
would meet his burden by a preponderance of the evidence. The
domestic violence was not the result of an isolated incidence, nor
were there allegations of the abuser-spouse acting in self-defense.
As such, the mandatory minimum/maximum guidelines of
equitable distribution would be triggered, creating a minimal
distribution award of 75% to the victim-spouse. Therefore, under
the new legislation, the victim-spouse in Debeny would have
received, at the very least, an additional 15% of the marital assets
that accumulated throughout the parties nearly forty-year
marriage. The protection originally sought through the addition
of Factor 14 would come to fruition under this proposed legislation.
iii. Y.L. v. L.L.
200
Acknowledging the permanent physical injuries and the
devastating emotional abuse caused by the abuser-spouse, the Y.L.
court considered eight factors under DRL 236 only to hold that the
marital assets should be distributed equally between the
parties.
201
No rationale was provided as to why the remaining
DRL 236 factors were irrelevant. Nor did the court explain why
the domestic violence sufficiently proven by the victim was solely
considered under Factor 2, which analyzes the health of the
parties. This raises concern whether courts will assess domestic
violence under the DRL 236 factor dedicated solely to considering
domestic violence, or instead, as part of a different, less focused
factor, thereby lessening the impact on equitable distribution
Under the new legislation, the domestic violence claims made by
the victim-spouse in Y.L. would trigger the rebuttable
presumption under prong two. The victim offered sufficient
evidence of conduct that resulted in permanent bodily injury and
200
See Y.L. v. L.L., 129 N.Y.3d 669, 2020 WL 4516937 (Sup. Ct. July 29, 2020).
201
See supra Part II.A and accompanying text.
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proved a pattern of abuse throughout the parties’ marriage using
credible witness testimony. These findings of domestic violence
under prong two would invoke a mandatory minimum equitable
distribution award of 75% of the parties’ marital assets to the
victim-spouse. The abuser-spouse would have an opportunity to
rebut the presumption with a preponderance of the evidence. But
under the facts of Y.L., it is unlikely that the abuser-spouse would
meet his burden: he did not refute nor deny causing the victim’s
permanent injuries, which require regular medical attention and
he even acknowledged instances of his abusive conduct. Therefore,
the victim-spouse would be awarded a minimum of 75% of the
parties’ assets, leaving room for judicial discretion to determine
the remaining 25% using other factors under DRL 236.
CONCLUSION
As incidences of domestic violence continue to rise,
202
the goals
of New York lawmakers regarding Factor 14 have become ever so
clear.
203
Legislators aim to ban courts from distributing awards
of marital assets to spouses convicted of domestic violence.
204
Their goal is to “ensure that the impact that abuse has on a
relationship and the awards of divorce proceedings are not subject
to unreliable and inconsistent interpretations by the divorce
courts.”
205
The addition of domestic violence to the list of factors
gives courts the express instruction to consider the impact of abuse
on victim-spouses. Perhaps the physical, emotional, and
psychological effects of domestic violence on community members
are unlikely to disappear. However, the financial hardships that
victim-spouses face can and should be alleviated with the passage
of firmer legislation and stricter guidance.
Yet Factor 14 falls short. It is imperative that the inadequacies
of a well-intentioned statute that advocates for victims of domestic
202
See Domestic Violence, supra note 10. Domestic violence by intimate partners has
surged, increasing by over 40% between 2016 and 2018 alone. See id.
203
See S.B. 6782, 242 Leg. Sess. (N.Y. 2019).
204
See id.
205
Id.
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violence be given a chance to succeed through more meaningful
statutory guidance so that equitable distribution awards can help
divorcing victims overcome the burdensome issues they face. We
must ensure that courts are consistent in their interpretations of
the impact of domestic violence on parties and reliably decide
equitable distribution awards. Or else, Factor 14 risks creating
indecisive reasonings and questionable holdings under the law of
equitable distribution, leading to more decisions in the future like
Laura Panek’s.
206
206
See No Way Out: Months-long Investigation Reveals Abusers Profiting Off Victims,
supra note 1; Demarest, supra note 5 and accompanying text.